Waiting
I'm still feeling somewhat shellshocked from Beany's cancer diagnosis. I almost don't quite believe it, as if I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop and someone to give me…
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My Kid Has Cancer
I'd actually been working on Beany update post - she's 16 months old, I've neglected the blog even though there is so much to say and now everything is...different. Four…
Everything She CAN Do
A couple of months ago, Beany had her 15 month check-up. She's missing some of her milestones. I've never really been interested in the milestones but I hadn't realised how…
Navigating A Binary Society As A Non-Binary Person
The thing with being non-binary is -offline at least - you’re still living in a binary world. Stuck in a binary society. I’m not binary. Most of the time I…
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5 Common Questions Non-Binary People Get Asked (And The Answers)
As a bisexual non-binary person, I get asked a lot of questions. people can't help themselves, and I'm pretty open so I know I tend to invite it. People are…
The Sleep Goblin
Comparison is part of human nature. Sometimes useful, often a problem, but we can't help it. We compare everything without even noticing. This cheese is better than that cheese, I…
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Pronouns 101
Pronouns are an important part of most languages, and in English, there are a variety of pronouns to choose from beyond the typically gendered he and she. A pronoun is…
Four Months Of Beany
Beany is already four months old. As with Snappy, the blog kinda takes a back seat to the demands of life with a small baby. Apparently, when there is two…
The Birth Of Beany
On Saturday the 13th, my second child came screaming into the world. While Snappy's birth was a traumatic event (wonderful but traumatic) Beany's birth was straight forward. Due Date? The…
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Three People To Know This Pride (And Every Pride)
Pride month is in June for a reason. The Stonewall Riots are wildly regarded as the instigator of the LGBTQ movement and the people there are the reason we have…