Posted inLife
HSBC Closed My Bank Account
When I was in my 20s, HSBC closed my bank account. Back then I was still living in Leicester, a city that had seen a lot of change in just…
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I failed my driving test last week.
I failed my driving test last week. I kinda expected too, but I won’t deny I’m a little disappointed. I have big plans - and by big plans, I want…
Posted inLife Mental Health
Disconnecting From The Hustle
I’ve been trying to disconnect from hustle culture, the need for a side hustle, the need to turn everything into a commodity. I’m finally at a point where I am…
No one expected this part of parenting
There’s lot of stuff they do and don’t tell you about being a parent. My sister has two kids, and I’ve spent a lot of time with them over the…
Posted inGrowing Up
My mum didn’t want kids
Since my mother’s dementia has worsened and my sister and I have spent more time together after an outing with her, we’ve been talking more about our childhood regarding my…
To the person who doesn’t want queer neurodivergent kids:
I came across a post on reddit by a neurodivergent asexual person, titled “I don’t know if I want queer children.” It was a short post, about adopting in the…